As my Anniversary with Mick approaches, it makes me want to reflect on the last 10 years together. (Well it's really 13 yrs this December, but 10 married.) A lot of hard times, good times, memorable times and times I don't want to remember have happened in our lives together.
I want to think back to meeting Mick. We have gone to school with one another since Jr. High. I remember in 8th grade I liked a lot of his friends, but never really thought to like him. We rode the bus together and I remember he being offended if I didn't sit with him on the bus..
I remember being at the Fair, I showed sheep and he showed pigs. He use to tease me so much, and I honestly never thought he liked me, I just thought he was being an annoying boy.
I dated a friend of his in Jr. High, and years later we ran into him. Mick told me that he had always told him that he (Mick) would marry me one day.. When we saw this guy, he told Mick that he couldn't believe that we actually married eachother.
Years later, I was a Junior and Mick was a Sophomore at Meridian. We only lived about 2 miles from eachother. A mutual friend of ours, Aaron kept telling me that Mick liked me. I honestly thought Mick was a dork, too skinny and hated his hair. Anyone who knows Mick in H.S. knows he had a mullet.. YES, I said a mullet.. I didn't have an attraction to him for quite a while. Aaron kept asking if I wanted to hang out with them one weekend and for a while I kept putting them off.
Right around the holidays (Thanksgiving & Christmas) we had been hanging out a lot. Going to dinner, movies, drives, shopping. It was fun, I was starting to like him.
I remember at that time I really like Reba McEntire and he gave be her Bio book that she wrote and some shirts for a X-mas gift. (I still have the book)
That started our journey together.
For the most part, Mick and I had a great relationship, of course there was always the "High School Drama" that seemed to always happen. I am mad because you did or didn't do this. I am jealous so don't talk to him/her..
We did break up 4 months into the relationship, and that summer I moved to Emmett to spend the summer with my grandpa. I didn't really talk to Mick a whole lot. He sent a couple letters to me and I sent a few back. That July I saw him at the Canyon County Fair. That night, we realized how much we missed eachother and promised to see eachother again at the Boise fair a month later. Luckily for us both, we never stopped seeing eachother that night..
My Senior year came and went so fast. We had a lot of fun together, camping, going to Idaho City with our friends to the Hot Springs, going to all of the school dances. Before I knew it, I had graduated High School and eager to move out of my parents house.
Mick being 18 as well, we decided that we were going to move in together.
Our first place was a single wide trailer just about 3 miles from his parents. It was exciting for us, we felt grown up and I knew I could see myself married to Mick. Mick still worked on the Dairy and I had just gotten a job at a Vet clinic. After a few months living there, it became infested with mice. While doing the dishes one day I reached in to pull the plug on the sink and touched a mouse who had ran across the counter and fell into the water. I said, we have to move, I won't live like this one more day!! With no where to really go, we both moved back to our parents house.
October 23, 1997 Mick asked me to marry him. He did a great job at suprising me. I was at my parents house, getting ready thinking that I had him figured out and that he would be asking me possibly that night to marry him, I wanted to look pretty and be prepared. I get a phone call and Mick said that my dog at the time Gus was missing and they couldn't find him. So I hurried and got over to his house, by now it's dark and I hear his dad calling for Gus out in the field and his mom was calling around the front of the house. I pull in there and start asking what happened, and Mick says, maybe my dad accidentally locked him in the barn. Running in there Mick fiddles with the lights, walks through this gate, turns around all of our friends pop out from behind some hay bails and Mick gets on one knee and asks me to marry him. I see my dog is in there with everyone, and I am shocked that he pulled that over on me.. I said yes, and was very excited!
Before we knew it, life was about to take a drastic change for both of our families!!
**Stay tune for Part II**